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Venue Spotlight

Lakefalls Lodge, Nelson NH

I admit, I am not great about blogging regularly, I have to feel inspired. I don’t want to just blog to blog.  So what gets my wedding juices flowing is showing off some of the spectacular wedding venues we have worked at, and ridiculously talented wedding professionals we work with!

I am starting a series spotlighting some of the area’s hidden gems. These are not wedding factories that do multiple weddings in a weekend. These are unique properties that offer opportunities to really put your stamp on things and personalize it, make it your own and bring your vision to life. I adore working with couples at these types of venues because we can really get creative, bring in a wedding team that will be a great fit for them!

Without further ado…I bring you Lakefalls Lodge!Danni+Jarrett-0305

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Located in Nelson, NH on over 250 acres, and surrounded by 10,000 acres of conservation easement, this brings privacy to a new level.

In 2012, the owners of this private residence contacted me about helping them plan their daughter’s wedding. I came to the property and couldn’t believe my eyes. Check out their website to read all about the fascinating history of this property. I am going to write about what a wedding is like at this unimaginable place.

This property is incredibly special, in part because they only host five weddings a year. If you are lucky enough to get in (they are booked fully for 2018 right now, but have some 2019 dates open). It boasts a walled garden area, several options for accommodations including cabins and cottages, stone bridges, a waterfall and lovely walking trails.

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Sarah on her way to her first look photos at her September 2017 wedding.

The scenery is gorgeous, with water, foliage and plenty of open sky.

How about a ceremony that overlooks this waterfall? Or maybe cocktails!

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Danni and Jarrett taking a quiet moment at their September, 2015 wedding.

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Leah and Rafi at their July, 2017 wedding Angelina Rose Photography

With so many different choices for ceremony, cocktail hour, reception and lodging the biggest question is what works well! After working with so many couples at Lakefalls Lodge, I know the property and layout really well. We have a team that is familiar with what works well and we are happy to help guide you from the first vendor decision to the final dance. Maybe cap the night with some fireworks!

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Here are a few more pictures from weddings helped bring to life! Remember that Large or Small; every event should be a Memorable Event! Call 603-762-4264 to schedule your complimentary consultation.



2017 Wedding Trends

As 2016 winds down…

It’s a chance to look back over an amazing year filled with love, romance, elegance and a whole lot of fun! 2016 was a transitional year from rustic to a more vintage and timeless look, but with a millennial twist! So contemporary vintage? Is that a thing? Well it should be!

We are keeping what we love from rustic like farm tables and less over the top floral arrangements but trading mason jars for old bottles. Burlap is making way for flowing fabric and lace. Color pallets are a bit more muted. Oh and CANDLES!! Yes, we know, many venues will only allow battery operated candles, but there is something super romantic about the real deal flickering of an actual flame.

I am in freaking love with personalizing weddings. I am not talking about monogramming everything in sight, but for the decor to be chosen thoughtfully and with meaning. I often have couples that will collect decor items by going to yard sales and antique shops through out the months leading up to their wedding which makes each item a bit more unique to them. Oh and keeping it fun for the guests! Lawn games during cocktail hour, yes please! And great music to dance the night away.

Let’s take a second to talk about food. In NH, we are so blessed to have an abundance of fresh, local, delicious foods at our finger tips. Farm to table is amazing. But unique is great too. Are you a fan of Asian food? Incorporate it! We are seeing food stations taking over the traditional buffet, whereas family style seems more popular than a plated meal. Whatever and however you decide to serve, quality ingredients is the key!

Cutting cakes and dessert buffets will continue to be a big hit, but maybe an interesting twist on fresh, made to order ice cream? Why not we say!


At Memorable Events, we are huge fans of tented weddings. You can make it your own, but it does create a bit more work (insert subtle hint to work with us to take care of it all for you!) but when done well, it is nothing short of spectacular. From sailcloth, to frame tents, pole tents and clear top tents…whichever you chose dress it up for your big day with what works for you.

2017 is going to be supremely amazing! We say bring it on!!

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Summer camp is a fond memory of swimming, adventure, campfire and friends. What better place to have a wonderful, woodsie wedding? I am lucky enough to be involved with the weddings at Camp Takodah in Richmond, NH. It is a place to go and get away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life, where life is simpler and there are less distractions. It’s the perfect location for a destination wedding!

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If you are interested in having a weekend long wedding with your closest 150 friends and family (though the dining hall holds more than that!), they’ve got your covered. The cabins on the property are yours to use along with the fire pit, the walking trails, adventure courses, waterfront and more!

Dress it up, or dress it down but your guests will appreciate taking time to smell the roses, hear the birds sing and dip their toes in the water. When it comes to rustic, they’ve got it covered from rocking chairs on the front porch, exposed wood everywhere, fireplaces galore and acres and acres of property to explore. A gorgeous waterside ceremony site complete with log benches for your guests completes the package.

Camps are quietly replacing barns as the hot new wedding venue. Camp Takodah only hosts a few weddings a year, so each one is treated as special and you are given full attention! So bring back the memories of childhood, when catching fireflies and making smore’s was the hardest work you had to do.

These pictures are from a stylized photo shoot done in collaboration with so many awesome wedding professionals. First, I would like to thank K. Lenox Photography for capturing everything so stunningly. While Memorable Events styled the shoot, without Kris’s talent, it would have all been for not. Then there are the flowers! Holly at Naturally Elegant Designs did an awesome job.

Hair and make up was done by One Design Hair Salon in Keene, NH. The cake, as delicious as it was beautiful, was crafted by Simply Sweet Confections in Marlborough, NH. Our models Alexis and Gwen were decked out in gowns provided by Country Bridals in Jaffrey, NH and we were joined later in the day by Alexis’s beau John.

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On 11/11/11 I was lucky enough to work with Beth and Rama on their gorgeous rusticly elegant wedding.

Enjoying the (albeit cool) break in the rain!

The day started off gray and misty, but just as the ceremony was about to begin the sun put in an appearance.

The sun broke just before the ceremony began!

The ceremony took place at the Unitarian Universalist Church in Keene, NH and the reception at Alyson’s Orchard. (

Over my years in business I have been lucky enough to work at Alyson’s Orchard dozens of times. It is a lovely venue for a rustic wedding. Beth was a wonderfully creative bride and was able to really transform the space into something extra special.

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Birch, which is the NH state tree, is often a popular choice for decor.  There were some really fun elements including this log we used for the escort cards.

By wood burning the table numbers into birch wood, the theme was continued.

However, real show stopper was this amazing cake with a three-dimensional birch tree climbing up the side. Beth worked extensively with Denise from Tastefully Wright Cakes  to bring her vision to life, and what a vision it was!

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This birch style cake was as delicious as it was lovely!

Not only was the decor wonderful, but Beth and Rama were such a great couple to work with. Fun, enthusiastic and totally and completely in love. Their families were excited to be sharing the day with them and the wonderful team of wedding professionals that we assembled for this day brought everything together perfectly.

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The first step in the planning process of a wedding or big event is figuring out the budget. From there, it’s about setting priorities and finding ways to bring all of the elements you want to create your vision within your budget. More and more couples that come to work with me are paying for at least part, if not all of their wedding, so keeping a tight rein on the budget is very important.

It’s often tempting to do this by becoming a DIY (do it yourself) bride or asking friends and family to help out. While this is a great idea in theory, I urge caution when moving forward with this idea. It may sound like a nice idea to have your friend who just bought a really nice camera take all of your pictures, but if you have been visualizing your photos you need to know that the caliber will not be the same with a “friendor” as it will with a real wedding vendor. However, if you really are OK with snap shot style photography then this might be an area you could cut back. Keep in mind that even though someone might have equipment, this doesn’t mean they know how to take pictures from the most flattering angles, using lighting correctly or how to do so without being intrusive.

When you hire a pro, you also have the contract which ensures they will deliver what you are paying them for. I recently had a wedding where the bride was working with a lot of friends and family to help out with different elements, a few of them backed out at the last-minute (including the friend that was going to make the cake! Backed out three days before!). This is an unknown, and nobody thinks it will happen to them but I’ve seen it all. It’s just another thing to keep in mind when setting those priorities.

It all comes down to priorities. DIY may save you money (and I say MAY because this is not always the case. Just ask the bride who had to buy DIY invitations three times over because she didn’t print them correctly or realized a spelling mistake or didn’t like the font!) but the offset is that it will take a lot of time and probably cause you stress. I usually recommend to my couples that they really think hard what is most important to them. Are gorgeous fragrant flowers the element you have always held important, but maybe cake is not as important to you? Or maybe having your day photographed perfectly is a top priority but that limo isn’t really a necessity. Is a live band what you’ve always dreamed of? If so then an “i-pod wedding” might not be your ideal.

The photos from the wedding below illustrate such a point. This chocolate loving couple was all about the cake, but flowers from the local farmers market were just fine for the centerpieces.

No DIY on the cake for this couple! It was all about the chocolate 🙂

Flowers from the farmers market made a lovely centerpiece

Because I am a wedding planner, I have an obvious biased towards the importance of hiring one. But I also want you to consider this. Hiring a professional to help you with your planning should not ultimately ad money to your budget. I work with wedding pros in all budgets, many of whom will give my couples a discount or added value so my fee is absorbed that way. It also saves you time and stress. This is one area where you don’t want a “newbie” or a friend to help you out. They don’t have the experience and professional contacts to do this for you.

And your budget doesn’t have to be big to work with Memorable Events. I have worked with couples with budgets of a few thousand to tens of thousands and all were equally happy. It’s just a matter of working with the budget you have and deciding where it is best spent.

Call for a free consultation 603-762-4264, email or visit to find out more!

Shabby chic, eclectic, vintage, rustic; these are all words we hear associated with weddings. What does it really mean though? It means making your wedding unique to you, with special touches that keep the celebration from being a “wedding in a box”.

Lovely antique blue jars give a nice touch to this table

New England is the perfect place with farms, orchards, barns, historic buildings or a lovely tent there are many options to create that perfect mix of rustic and elegant.  We are seeing some trends over the last few seasons that are continuing on now. Mixing and matching centerpieces is a great way to bring some fun to the decor. Why not shop around at garage sales and thrift stores for vases and containers that speak to you? Varying heights and widths can help make a space look more interesting.

 For the last few years cupcakes have been popular to serve as an alternative to traditional wedding cake, but how about individual cakes for each table that also serve as a centerpiece? Guests could have a fun time mingling at other tables to see what flavors are served there!

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Keep your eyes open for pieces that speak to you and you’ll soon be on your way to creating a unique wedding theme that will reflect your tastes! Contact Memorable Events for a free consultation! or email

With the royal wedding just days away, there is a lot of talk going on in the wedding industry as to what new trends will be set. From all reports, it seems that the wedding celebration will be a blend of tradition and contemporary practices. Though many people I have talked to don’t seem to be all that interested (at least here in the U.S.) in the wedding, I believe we will see some trends set and it would be unwise to discount the importance of historical Royal Weddings!

I thought it would be fun to delve into some common wedding traditions, so here it goes:

Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue and a Silver Sixpence in her shoe (did you know that last line??)

Something old: Symbolizes the bride maintaining relationships with her family and friends from her pre-married life.

Something new: Symbolizes hope and optimism for the future

Something borrowed: This should be an item borrowed from a happily married lady and some of that happiness and joy should spread to your new married life!

Something blue: Traditional wedding dress color prior to the mid 19th century, symbolizes love, modesty and fidelity. The Virgin Mary is often depicted in blue for these same reasons.

Silver Six pence in her shoe: optimal placement for good financial luck is in the left shoe. Don’t have a sixpence handy? Substitute with a penny or a dime and you’ll be fine 🙂

The Veil: Believe it or not, there was a time when weddings were really just contracts between two families, and the bride and groom didn’t even see each other until the ceremony. The veil kept the bridehidden from her future husband. Veils were also used to ward off evil spirits in ancient times and often shrouded the bride from head to toe.

Double ring ceremony: Have you heard that Prince William won’t be wearing a wedding ring? That’s the rumor anyway, and before you think too harshly of him keep in mind that it is only since the 1940’s brilliant marketing ploy of American jewelry companies that men have worn rings.  Historically rings were worn on the fourth finger of the left hand because ancient Egyptians believed there was a vein from that finger directly to the heart. It was also a symbol of the husbands pledge to keep his bride financially secure, hence it was made of gold.

A white wedding gown: Up until the 1840 wedding of Queen Victoria brides wore gowns of all colors, something practical that they would wear again. The wealthy would have a new dress made for the occasion, but most people would just wear their finest dress. Queen Victoria changed that by wearing a white satin gown (her 12 bridesmaids all wore white too, she started the tradition of bridesmaids all matching as well!) and a lace veil. White gowns took off like crazy and became the color to wear from there on out.

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So, for those of you that aren’t interested in the royal wedding…this “trend” has been around for almost 200 years!

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